His penis and your vagina might not always match up perfectly.
Find out if a penis can ever be too big for your vagina—and what to do if you find yourself dealing with a big penis.
Good news: In general, most vaginas are able to fit all shapes and sizes of penises. Given appropriate arousal and lubrication, most vaginas can expand to fit whatever size penis.
It’s pretty rare for women in their 20s and 30s to have problems accommodating more well-endowed men. It becomes more common as you get older, though, because the likelihood of your having medical or hormonal issues increases.
There are exceptions…
Sometimes, it can seem like a penis is too big for a woman’s vagina. And if that’s the case, the important thing is that you need to figure out why it’s happening—because it can be solved.
Two big reasons that his penis can seem too large. First, you may not be turned on enough. Really. “If a woman is not aroused, it’s very possible that a penis may not go in Or if it does, it could hurt or bleed or cause tearing. To fix this problem, be sure you are lubricated enough before he enters you. Ask him to engage in some serious foreplay before the main act, or use lubricant to get things going.
Another possibility is that certain medications could be making your vagina a little dehydrated—and you may not even realize it. Many low-dose birth control pills cause vaginal dryness, as well as antihistamines and even cancer treatments, like radiation.
So if you continue to be dry down there—even if your guy is all about foreplay—check in with your gyneacologist to see if one of the medications you are taking may be messing with your sex life.
The important thing to focus on here is that this is a solvable situation. As long as you follow the above advice, you are not fixed to a sex-less existence if your man’s penis seems too large. I have not once seen a patient who hasn’t been able to successfully have intercourse after taking the proper steps to fix the problem.