This is a common question I get…
“What positions can help me last longer in bed?”
Well I want to share one with you today…
First, let me explain WHY this works, rather than just
giving you the position.
One of the things that triggers early orgasm and
prevents you from lasting long in bed is when there’s a
very high energy build-up in the genital area…
Another way to think of this is as there being too much
focus and attention on the genital area.
You’ll know what I’m talking about if you’ve ever
been in that situation where your pleasure levels are
running wildly out of control and you know fast
orgasm is inevitable and it’s frustrating because it feels
like there’s nothing you can do about it.
Well, fortunately there is something you can do in this
situation and this is exactly what this position does.
This position diverts attention, focus and energy away
from the genital area therefore making it much easier
for you to last longer.
OK, so here’s the position…
Any position that involves YOU standing up.
And, ideally, if appropriate, where you’re carrying
your partner – either fully or to some extent as a result
of the position.
In other words you could be lifting her fully off the
ground while having sex, or perhaps she’s on the edge
of the bed and you’re partly holding her while you
Why does this type of position work so well for
helping you last longer?
Because when in this position energy and focus is
required in parts of the body other than the genitals.
Think about it…
To stand up requires more blood being pumped to the legs
and perhaps the arms if you’re carrying your partner
and it requires mental focus for things like balance and
holding you up.
This combination of factors draws your focus and
energy away from just the genitals therefore
preventing over-stimulation or situations where your
pleasure levels get out of control and early orgasm
Now, this may sound simple, but it’s very powerful.
And it’s best used in combination with other
techniques for lasting longer in bed and strategically
Don’t become dependent on just this position, use it
as one of many tools in your toolbox for helping you
last longer in bed.
If, for example, you notice yourself approaching
orgasm, then switch to a standing up position to
recover some stamina and then return to other
positions and other techniques.
To discover more sex positions as well as other
techniques for lasting longer in bed, preventing early
orgasm and giving your lover more sexual satisfaction
Discover those techniques here…